Friday, August 15, 2008

Insecurities Much?

I am comfortable with how my body looks. I am probably one of the only teenage girls in America who would say that. But I like
  • My eyes. They're a really nice blue.
  • My legs. They're not sexy, but they're fine.
  • My hair. It's a pretty good color, and it has a lotta volume.
  • My arms. Although they could be less bony.
  • My lips. Hey, there's nothin' wrong with em.
  • My nose. It has no defects.
  • My chest. With the right bra, it looks BIG! Well, to me.
This doesn't mean I think I'm gorgeous, just that, when I put out enough effort, I look decently pretty. And I like that.
Actually, my view on looks is probably vastly different than most people's. Unless a person is glaringly ugly, I automatically think someone is fairly good looking. I look for their positive outward features. Then, as I get to know them, I will either think they are pretty because I like them, or think they are ugly because I don't. Does that make any sense!? Ah well.
Well, not all beautiful people are beautiful on the inside. "But he's so hot!" is not an excuse to date a jerk.
But I think appearances do matter in some respects:
1. Put out effort to look nice. That shows a person (like a boyfriend/girlfriend) that you like them.
2. I think to truly be in love with someone, you have to be both emotionally AND physically attracted to them. So YOU have to think they're attractive; it doesn't matter if people agree with you.
3. EATING DISORDERS ARE BAD. You shouldn't be too skinny or too fat. IT SCARES PEOPLE.
But yeah. I'm comfortable with the way I look. I wish everyone else in the world would be too.

1 comments:

Mistalay said...

thank you!!!! you make people like me feel better...

annee